The answer is YES and NO. Although some women will disagree, the majority or most of the women will agree that size does matter. Most men will argue that it’s not how big you are, it’s how you work it, which is necessarily true, but it really all depends on the woman’s preference.

So what is the average size of a penis anyways? Well, a non-erect, average sized penis, measures out somewhere between 3 to 4 and a quarter inches from the tip to the base. Most men fall into this category. In some instances like swimming in cold water, temporary shrinkage occurs making the penis an inch shorter. An average fully erect penis will be somewhere around 5 to 7 inches depending on how they converge.

Keep in mind though that most women, including the ones that say that the size does matter, do say that if it attached to their loved ones, well guess it wouldn’t matter anymore. Most women will say that men can always make up the lack of size with how good they are with their hands and tongues. It is a known fact anyways that most women orgasm completely not from penetrative sex but with oral sex and foreplay when done the right way.

Another complaint that most women have is if the size is way too big, accompanied by the man’s ego. Some women have claimed that when they had sex with a guy that was above average with an ego, they did not go the extra mile to please them but instead just pleased themselves. One woman I talked to said that this was the case for her where her ex-boyfriend was above average but never cared to really take the time to please her while her current boyfriend, who is average, takes the time to please her, making sex with her current boyrfriend 150% better.

For men, one thing to keep in mind is that a woman’s vagina is approximately 4 inches deep when aroused and can accommodate up to eight inches if she hasn’t had a baby. This basically calculates that every penis should fit snug in a woman’s vagina and will be able to hit all of the right buttons. So for men, if you are above 6 inches, you have more than enough, and for men who are 3 inches, well, you better start learning some amazing foreplay and you better learn how to use your tongue to help you get the job done.

Girth should be the issue at hand here. Girth is way more important than length. Having a wider but shorter penis in my opinion is way better than having a long, skinny penis for the simple fact that the shorter penis with a wider girth will stimulate the woman more because it will rub on the woman’s vagina walls rather than not rubbing the walls where sensations come from.

It really depends on your partner. Pleasing a woman is not just about the size of a penis, although it helps quite a bit in boosting a man’s confidence and a woman’s sexual desire to feel pleasured. Pleasing a woman is all about what you do before sexual intercourse and what you do after so size does not really matter when pleasing a woman.

For the women who like it big, it’s their preference and they obviously know what they want. For the women who don’t care much about the size of a man’s penis, well, they have their reasons and they too know what they want in a man. If a person rejects you for the size of your penis, they are most likely shallow and they are not worth your time and attention.

A big penis doesn’t always get the job done. A big penis does not guarantee sexual satisfaction and it surely does not guarantee a good sexual experience overall. So guys, relax and put down the tape measure, put your energy and focus on something else instead like learning how to work your stuff and learning how to pleasure a woman the right way.