Your eyes lock and you are both breathing in and out the same exact way. You are both oblivious to your surroundings and he grips your waist, pulling you in closer, slightly lifting you while she pushes on your chest, delaying the inevitable. You are both in a trance, kissing wildly, hands all over, and just as soon as he begins to penetrate, she bites your lip hard and sinks in her nails into your chest.

Some like it hot. Some like it hot to the point of pain. That girl or woman that you see as frail and non “wildcat” can probably take more rough sex than you can ever imagine.

An average man can weigh as much as 150 pounds to 200 pounds. Most guys really like to give it to a good punch when having sex. Now you’ve got his weight, his speed and his force all up on you which means that if you can take all three without any problems, you can throw in the sinking nails, scratching, spanking and rough play without any problems.

To discover if a woman likes it hard, give it a good listen while intercourse. A woman that does not like it rough will always ask you to “Take is easy” or “Slow down,” indicating that the woman is probably more satisfied with the slow grinding, casual sex rather than having it rough. Women that don’t like rough sex will often have no problems telling you to “Take it easy.” The whole reason behind this is that women that don’t like rough sex feels like they’re being demeaned and disrespected.

On the other hand, if the woman asks for you to “Go deeper,” “Faster,” or “Harder,” then you’ve got a winner. Another obvious sign of a woman wanting rough sex would be if she initiates anal sex which indicates that she can take more physical contact in other areas as well. Spanking is usually the first thing you need to do to establish yourself as not an abuser. Give her a good smack on the ass and ask her if “Do you like that?” “Do you want it harder or faster?” This will help establish the first step. To establish the second step, if she answers yes to your questions, pull her hair and say “Of course you do.”

Now that you’ve established the signs that she likes it rough, ask her if she’s enjoying it. If she says “Yes,” then she is most likely up for more. The next time you have intercourse, lay behind her in the spoon position, penetrate her, pull her hair and then put your arms around her neck as if you were going to strangle her. Do not put a deathgrip on your hold but instead tread lightly giving her a mental stimulation, turning her on and establishing your ultimate “Submissive” position. You will also get a turn on from this, getting that dominating and in control feeling.

To take the stimulation to the next level, biting, pinching, pulling, and spanking will take both of your mental game to a heightened sense. Biting or pinching sensitive parts of the body such as the nipples, the head or the clit brings rough play to the next level.

Another way to heighten the senses with rough play or sex is to role play. Role playing is a big part of the game in which “the robber,” which is you, breaks in, gets caught, and demands to have sex with you or else he will kill you. Role play is the best way to have rough sex. This is the key.

Please do not go overboard with this. Hurting someone physically or mentally is not the objective here and it is not healthy. Scarring somebody or going overboard will have it’s repercussions whether you like it or not so know you and your partners limits. Communicate with your partner and focus on mutual pleasure when having rough sex.



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