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Woo Her Into Bed

By: Gian Erguiza - June, 2008

Ahhh. The fine art of wooing women into bed is a long lost art. Men these days have the tendency of going for the easy kill, the drunk, half-conscious, barely standing but nonetheless “good to go” slut. But what about the men that don’t have that mojo or right skills to woo a woman into bed, even if they were the easy type?

Frantik will gladly help you out.

Most women like the nice guy. The true old-fashioned way to woo a woman into bed is to make the effort and go the extra mile to make her feel comfortable and special, it is essential. A woman always feels more comfortable when she is given choices and let her know she can get home safely.

Be generous. Make sure you have money when you go on your date. You don’t want to be caught in the headlights when she orders that expensive champagne and you don’t have the sufficient funds to pay for it! Generosity is very important.

Pay attention to her. People that talk about themselves too much put-off the opposite sex like no other. Ask her about her endeavors, her life, family, what she likes….put your energy and focus on her and nobody else. Don’t get too personal though and stay within the lines.

Make her laugh. Laughter is a deal-breaker cause it shows that you have a funny side to you, not serious all the time. Don’t laugh too hard now though with piggy noises or else you’re just turning them off. Making a woman laugh will keep them entertained and amused.

Be a gentleman. The old-fashioned gentleman is still one of the best ways to woo a woman into bed. The simple things like opening the door for her, paying for the dinner and movie, and walking her to her front door is still good as gold. Most women still prefer the old-fashioned gentleman.

Cleanliness. Women pay attention to everything, so make sure that you are clean and well groomed before the date. Make sure that you don’t have dirt under your fingernails, no nose hairs sticking out, pressed clothing with no wrinkles, clean haircut and clean shoes. Women cringe at the sight of a dirty and dingy man, especially on the first date.

Wordplay. You got it. Wordplay is as good as foreplay to some women and if you say the right words all the time, it’s a complete turn-on. Choose your words wisely and you can forget about boring the woman.

Be straight out. Some women don’t like all the formalities that a romantic dinner might have or any other romance but love it when a man can be straight with them about what they want. If it is sex that you want, and you have a good idea that she also wants it, hell, proclaim it. If you want her for the night and so does she, well, let her know. Letting her know what you want ensures her that you make confident and that you are sure about yourself. Go to where she wants to go or do what she wants to do. If she loves football, even though you hate it, take her to her favorite teams game. It shows that you care, even though you don’t like football, and shows that you are willing to work with her. Obviously if she wants to go and get plopped drunk somewhere, this may be the time you want to step in and suggest something more romantic like dinner and a movie.

Extravagant Gifts are always welcome. If you have done a bit of homework and payed attention to the little details before giving a gift, you will sure get an A for effort. You can’t go wrong with undulging her with gifts and stuff. This is help to try and make opportunities. Go get em’ tiger.

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