SEX TIPS

Anal Affection

This is one of the best, if not, the best sexual gift that a woman can give to you. Anal sex is still taboo to most couples but more and more couples and partners are finding this type of sex to be the right direction towards sexual fruition. I cannot give you the best tip to reach the technique in which it is most pleasurable for her because that is solely the part that both you and your partner have to work out.

The first thing you need to know is if she even wants to explore any anal sex position. The best way to find out is through cunnilingus or foreplay. While kissing or licking on her vagina, with your forefinger tip, explore her anus. Make sure to listen to audible confirmation and be conservative with your exploration.

If she spanks your hand or sounds like she’s in pain, back off. If she is moaning and going with the flow, that means she likes it or is “considering.”

Once you confirm to her either, verbally or physically, that she wants to try anal, remember to always go slow. In no way should you approach this like a jackhammer into vagina sex. The vagina is all about the clitoris where anal is all about hitting the right comfortable spot deep down. Her little alleyway is not used to your big manhood so go slow and make sure that you have the right tools before digging in.

In order to have the right tools for digging behind, make sure you have the proper condom and lubricant. Condoms are very highly recommended when having anal sex for extreme pleasure. The main reason why condoms are highly recommended is to stave off various bacteria that can cause very painful urinary tract infections. There are other forms of diseases and bacteria so make sure that you’re condom is durable and that it came from a reliable company. “Spermicide” condoms are not recommended for it can sting her butt pretty badly. Always use the best lubricant out in the market for this type of sex and do not be afraid to ask which one is mostly like “her” fluids.

Anal sex is also an alternative for pregnant women. Some guys would like to have sex while they’re partner is pregnant so the tight bottom end would be perfect for both.

Let her lead the way. Of course you pursue or engage at first, lube her backside, but let her lead the way so she can be more comfortable with it. In turn, she can tell you whether to go slower, deeper and she can always take your penis and guide it through so she can pace herself. The best way to get in is by gently pushing the tip of your penis between her cheeks without penetrating her. Once in, take it slow, real slow while sliding in and out, working with her hips methodically until she starts moving her hips and doing all the work. Make sure that you mention to her that you have the right tools and is ready.

Remember, this is for her pleasure, not yours, so let her lead the way and let her have it her way.

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